Okay, folks. Since I keep getting questions on the new policy, this is a little overdue. I’m essentially using a super-simplified version of the policies in place at The Border House and at GeekFeminism.org, albeit a bit simplified into a few easy to remember rules:
1) NO INSULTING OTHER COMMENTERS.
I don’t care if they deserve it. I don’t care if they insulted me, or if they insulted you, or if they came over to your house and kicked your dog. Don’t do it. If you come along and see an insulting comment, don’t get bent out of shape and insult the other commenter. That will just get both of your comments deleted.
Keep disagreements civil. You are welcome to argue with other commenters as long as you are arguing with their points and not resorting to polemics. That goes for BOTH sides.
2) NO DERAILING
I’m not opposed to the odd off-topic conversation that springs up in the comment threads, but there’s a difference between that and actively wasting everyone’s time and energy so that no one ever gets to discuss what we’re here to discuss. If you’re not sure what constitutes derailing, please go read Feminism 101 or Derailing for Dummies.
If something gets to the point of derailing, I will post a bolded comment in the thread to the effect of:
[This is derailing]
Any comment after that that continues the conversation will be deleted. Yes, even those comments trying to explain why the original derailer is derailing the conversation. Talking with someone trying to derail the conversation is like punching a tar baby. It’s best just to not get involved at all.
3) MY HOUSE, MY RULES
I get to decide what constitutes insults or derailing. Don’t argue with me for deleting your comments. If you’re really, genuinely puzzled as to why your comment was deleted, feel free to ask in a civil manner. But don’t tell me that I’m being wrong-headed or stupid.